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We will counsel you on your unspeakable concerns.
- National Competition on Worries! - National Competition on Worries!
(National Competition on Worries)
Today's guests are national idols who are rocking Korea.
Kang Daniel, Park Ji Hoon, and Hwang Min Hyun from Wanna One.
- Hello. - Hello.
(Save, save)
It's so loud.
The staff told us...
they had a very difficult week this week.
They said they struggled.
They received so many stories this week.
There's no reason to have so many stories this week.
I know.
When they finally found something good,
staff said, "Okay, we'll invite you for next week or the week after."
But they said they have to be on this week.
- How could this happen? - That's where they get caught.
Why do we have to counsel their lifelong worries this week?
I know.
I think it's because of Wanna One.
- They want to see them. - To see them.
Daniel is a real Busan tough guy.
- Really? - I saw him acting in dialect.
- It was very attractive. - Really?
Can you show us?
She's the only woman today.
- A sister. - I'm the woman
(She ruined the original song because she's so excited.)
To a sister who is older than your mother.
That must have hurt.
(Dong Yeob is so fun. He met their sense of humor.)
People would trust it.
What year was your mother born, Daniel?
She was born in 1967.
She's my age.
(Daniel's mother and Yeong Ja are the same age.)
Still, you can call her sister since you met her on the show.
I love your eyes.
You look more beautiful in person than on TV.
(Oh, my.)
Oh, this must be...
what they call CPR. He made my heart beat.
My heart is beating.
Since Wanna One is here,
what about a performance? The audience would want it.
Sure. Great.
- Definitely. - I love it.
(She's returning the favor.)
- That's great. - Music please.
(They're looking forward to it.)
("Energetic" by Wanna One)
(Full of energy)
(Sweet)
Great job.
That's it.
(Heart attack warning)
(We're energetic Wanna One.)
("Pick Me" by Wanna One)
(Is this real?)
(Everyone becomes one through "Pick Me".)
(You're the star tonight.)
It was hot.
Good job. Good job.
There are 11 members in your group.
Each member has his own talent.
He's still the cutest one.
Is he the cutest?
Show me what you got, Ji Hoon.
- He has beautiful eyes. - He's the youngest.
I noticed that he has very long eyelashes.
Thank you.
Everyone who is here today...
will be saved in my heart.
That's it.
Saved.
It must be very difficult for him.
It's first time for us, but people would make him do it...
everywhere he goes.
- Right. - I feel so bad.
Have you done it like 10,000 times?
- How many times did you do it? - How many times did you save?
About 3,500 times exactly.
It must be very difficult.
He's repeating this all day.
After doing this outside, he'd go like this at home.
(Ji Hoon will get comfortable at home.)
Because he's so tired.
My glasses.
They'd fight over it,
but once he's out, he'd be like "Saved".
He must've seen it.
- Isn't it tiring? - Not at all.
We have three worries today.
Show us the keywords please.
(The keywords are revealed.)
It's three worries.
"Wash Your Hands".
"I Want to Cry".
"Drooped Woman".
"Wash Your Hands".
Hello. I'm a man in my 30s living in Suwon.
I'm not sure if you can counsel on this serious worry,
but I decided to send my story due to frustration.
My father, who turned 60 this year,
is addicted to gambling.
Gosh. We never had anything like this before.
He goes to the casino in Gangwon Province every Sunday,
and it's been 15 years this year.
- My goodness. - That's a long time.
He stays up all night gambling...
and comes home all exhausted.
"Dad, when are you going to stop?"
"Can you please stop now?"
"Hey, you're not the boss."
"It's my hobby. Mind your own business."
No hobby makes you lose 2,000 dollars over night.
- Over night? - My mom must be very upset.
"Please stop. When are you going to stop?"
"I'm spending my own money. Mind your own business."
"I won't stop until I die."
At this point, he must an addict, right?
Please help my dad stop gambling.
(Please stop my dad.)
It's pretty intense for the first worry.
- It's serious. - I know.
The worry targets often said,
"I don't drink, smoke, or gamble."
- It was their excuse, - That's right.
but he gambles.
He gambles instead.
Was your father ever addicted to anything, Ji Hoon?
My dad used to smoke for a little while.
What?
I'm sorry, but is your dad...
- For a little while? - For a little while.
How could he dare smoke?
- That's not acceptable. - For a little while.
He smoked for about a year.
How did you feel about it as a son?
I told him seriously,
"Smoking is harmful, and you should quit now."
When you were smoking with him?
- What? - When you were smoking with him?
No, never.
- Then the next day... - He quit the next day?
- Yes. The next day. - He quit?
Even smoking dad makes his son worry,
but we have a dad who is a gambling addict.
We'll see how serious it is. Let's have him here.
Please come out!
(Who wants to save his father so desperately from gambling?)
(Kim Man Joong)
(Welcome)
He's handsome.
Welcome.
The domestic casino...
is legal for citizens,
so what he's doing isn't illegal, right?
No, it's not illegal,
but he's crossed the limit,
so I sent my worry.
He goes there every Sunday,
and he doesn't just gamble for a few hours.
He gambles for over 12 hours.
(12 hours is normal.)
He even gambles for 15 hours maximum.
He skips meals and only drinks beverages.
The casino closes at six.
He speeds up to come home early in the morning.
- He drives back home? - Yes.
He could fall asleep while driving.
Because he speeds up, he gets home in two hours.
- In two hours? - Yes.
Two hours?
That means he's driving at 170 to 180km per hour.
He's driving fast and furious because he lost money.
(He drives fast and furious thinking of the money he lost.)
(Dad please.)
If he loses 2,000 dollars every time, that's 8,000 dollars a month.
How long has this been going on?
It's been about 15 years.
At first, it wasn't much,
- but in last 4 or 5 years, - It increased.
he loses from 1,000 dollars to 2,000 dollars...
every time.
How much has he lost in the casino until now?
- It must be enormous. - Perhaps you calculated it.
If I add everything he lost from the beginning,
I think it'd be enough to buy an apartment.
That's possible.
If he went every week for 15 years,
that's close to one million dollars.
He must be very rich. Where does he get all that money?
He said it's his own money.
He owned a supermarket for over 30 years.
It's been about 10 years since they opened karaoke.
He asks my mom for money...
to go there.
So basically, your mother is in charge of the finance...
they saved up for 30 years,
but every time he goes,
- he asks for money. - Yes.
Other people in your family must be worried as well.
Yes. I have a wife,
and we live at my parents' house.
My wife doesn't feel comfortable...
when my parents have a fight,
so I always feel sorry.
Don't your parents fight all the time?
They're fine most of the time,
but every time he asks for money,
they get in a fight.
(It's almost as if there's a war going on in their house.)
Let's talk to his father.
Hello, sir.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
Did you feel anything from what your son said?
I never thought it'd be a worry.
My son said this to me two weeks ago.
"Dad, are you going there again?"
So I said yes,
then he said,
"You should be on 'Ask Anything'."
(You should be on "Ask Anything".)
(What?)
"Ask Anything"?
I'll ask you anything today.
- This show is Hello. - He said I should be on Hello.
We do ask anything here.
Did he confuse Hello with "Ask Anything"?
I thought he was joking when he said that.
But he had finished talking to the writer,
so I was dragged here.
So you think it's not a worry even after listening to your son?
It's never a worry.
My son exaggerated.
I started going there more often about 4 or 5 years ago.
The frequency has been increasing...
- without realizing. - So it's a worry.
I win from time to time.
But you lose in general.
90 percent of the time, I lose.
Then it's a worry.
It's not like I lost money that I borrowed.
I'm only spending what I saved up.
You could spend the money you saved up somewhere else,
but why does it have to be the casino?
When I go to the casino, I can fight with the machine.
After pressing it for a few times, I win...
and it's like fireworks.
(The joy when there are fireworks)
That's where I find it exciting.
Is that what relieves your stress?
That's right.
You said you lose more than you win.
Does it still relieve your stress even when you lose money?
Of course, I feel bitter on the way back home at first.
My wife nags at me, so I get stressed out.
- You go together? - Together?
- She's my guardian. - Guardian...
- She stops him. - She's worried he'd spend more.
She's worried that I might get into trouble,
so she follows me as my guardian.
She's a watcher, not a guardian.
That's right.
She doesn't gamble together, does she?
She never gambles.
It must be a problem for her since she has to follow him,
and you earned money together, but he ends up losing it all.
I'm sure she's stressed.
Sir, you are now...
You still do it even though you know?
You think it's just a hobby?
That's right. I didn't have a chance to enjoy my life...
because I was busy running my own business.
I want to enjoy my hobby.
Then is your wife allowed to spend 8,000 dollars every month?
She doesn't have a reason to spend that much.
She's not spending it.
It's not that she can't.
She's saving up, not that she can't.
Why would a woman need so much money?
(What?)
You should never say that nowadays.
When people usually come here,
they realize it's a problem, and they want to fix it,
but he's not willing to change.
On the other hand,
if you manage money,
you could stop giving him money.
I've tried that too. If I don't give him money,
he'd go on a strike, and doesn't come out of his room.
He'd say, "I must disappear."
- "I'd better off dead." - That's so cheap.
It makes me nervous when he says such things,
so I have no choice but to give him money.
You two worked hard to save up that money.
Don't you think it's a waste? It must be a waste.
It is a waste. It's such a waste.
Don't give him money, Mother.
He'd go crazy if I don't.
Do you follow him every Sunday when you need to rest?
Of course. When you go there,
- you'll find many pawnshops. - Places where they lend you money.
There are private loans too.
I get nervous.
Also, my children, especially my daughter...
keeps telling me to follow him even if I'm tired...
because they're worried.
What do you do when you go there?
- I just stand there. - Beside him?
- Beside him? - I just walk around and stand.
When my legs get tired,
I sit down by the empty machine,
but people tell me to move if I'm not going to play.
Right.
If they tell me to get up, I try 10 cents.
Have you ever won from it?
I won once.
I tried 70 cents.
How much did you win?
- 70 cents? - I tried 70 cents.
it was an accident, but it said 100.
I thought it was 100 dollars, but the man next to me said,
"You just won 1,000 dollars."
With 70 cents?
How did you feel...
- when you won 1,000 dollars? - He's smiling.
He's laughing for the first time.
Look at him laughing.
There's no point of winning because he lost 2,000 dollars.
So he lost 2,000 dollars that day,
- and you won 1,000 dollars? - Yes.
Then do you eat?
No.
- You can't eat either? - No.
You can go out for food for a second.
I don't eat until I come back.
If she didn't follow him,
he could've lost more money.
- Of course. - Right.
I can't help following him because he's gullible.
He trusts people so easily.
Was there any incident in the past?
He lent 30,000 dollars to his friend,
but we could never get it back.
He said he wanted to try something else other than the supermarket,
so he tried some kind of phone business,
- and lost 80,000 dollars. - 80,000 dollars?
He loses money even if he doesn't gamble.
(He should stop gambling by now.)
How do you relieve your stress?
I go window shopping.
- You could buy something you like. - You should. That's what he does.
- Why don't you buy it? - I should save up.
If you save up, he goes out to spend it.
There should be at least one person saving up.
We both can't just spend.
That's why I can't gamble when we go to a casino.
I want to try it too, but I can't.
- You want to play too? - Yes.
She has experience of winning.
Right. She won 1,000 dollars before.
She wants to save up 1,000 dollars.
She won 1,000 dollars before.
He said a woman doesn't have a reason to spend money,
but there are many things she wants to buy,
and she probably wants to enjoy her life...
after suffering so much.
Don't you feel sorry towards her?
I am sorry,
so I told her to get a hobby...
at home,
but she said no, so there's nothing I can do.
But you said...
she can't spend 1,000 dollars a week.
Would you be okay if she gets a hobby that need 1,000 dollars?
That's not acceptable. Women don't need to spend 1,000 dollars a week.
- Why can't women do it? - How can she have a hobby...
with no money? You need money to enjoy your hobby.
There should be a limit.
You should know your limit first.
I know my limit.
You need to know your limit.
She said she likes it too.
- Let me ask you a question. - Sure.
- Your son's working very hard. - Yes.
Let's say when he gets old,
he loses 1,500 or 2,000 dollars every week...
just like you.
How would you feel?
- Of course, that's not acceptable. - What?
- Why not? - He shouldn't.
- Why not? - Why?
Why is it allowed for you only?
Are you even listening to yourself?
There may be better machines...
when they get old,
but to me, that's not acceptable.
Why is that?
- Because I'm doing it. - What's so bad about it?
- Because he's losing. - What's bad about it?
He'll end up losing, so he shouldn't.
Then you must stop.
Even if he spends his own money?
It should end with me.
What are you talking about?
So you're aware that you're losing money.
- But you can't stop. - Yes. He can't stop.
That's why it's an addiction. You must admit you're addicted.
I'm not addicted.
So basically, he means...
This is serious.
Addicts are...
those who spend 3 or 4 days there,
but I only play it for one night,
so I'm not an addict.
Half of the money you spend is hers.
Let's say she goes to gamble, and you're just standing there watching.
- How would you feel about that? - He already said no.
Of course, that's not acceptable.
(What has gotten into my father?)
How was your father before he started gambling?
Before he started gambling, he was committed to his family.
He often went traveling.
We often went out for dinner together,
but now that he goes every Sunday,
there's less family dinner time.
We often don't get time together.
Right. When you have a grandchild,
you should spend more time together eating,
and watching them grow up.
He must be worried about it.
He said he's married.
As a daughter-in-law, she can't say it straight up.
- She can't. - Right.
She can't say it to her mother-in-law either.
She must be in a very difficult situation.
We all live in the same house.
Also, my wife is pregnant.
She's already busy taking care of herself,
but she must be suffering a lot being careful in the house.
Let's talk to their daughter-in-law.
- Hello. - Hello.
You must be worried at home.
That's true. When Father comes back from the casino,
the air in the house isn't very good.
I'm often alone at home in the day time...
with Father and Mother together.
It's already difficult because they're my parents-in-law,
but since the air is heavy,
- I can't do anything in the middle. - I see.
Your mother-in-law must seem suffering to you.
Right. She has to do the chores,
and she's also babysitting...
my sister-in-law's baby.
Is she also going to gamble?
- No. She works. - They both work.
So she babysits her child?
Yes. So when the kid comes back from the kindergarten,
she needs to babysit and do the chores.
She also has to make dinner.
She's also very economic.
She doesn't even throw out an empty bottle.
She returns all the bottles at the supermarket for a refund.
She'd go shopping at where it's two cents cheaper.
That's how economic she is,
but he's losing hundreds of dollars in front of her.
She must be very stressed.
Does he help her a lot?
- Such as karaoke. - But the thing is...
- he doesn't work. - Then what does he do?
He doesn't even work hard for the whole week...
and just goes to gamble?
When it's around midnight,
he keeps telling her to go home,
but no one closes the karaoke at midnight.
- Right. It closes at dawn. - It should be open until two.
If a customer comes at 12, he'd say it's closed and send them back.
If a customer who was already there wants to extend time,
he still tells them to leave because it's closed.
We just listened from the daughter-in-law.
Don't you feel ashamed to your daughter-in-law?
There's nothing to be ashamed of.
- You're not even sorry? - For what?
He didn't ask his daughter-in-law for money,
or his son for money.
That's right.
That's not the only thing that you should find embarrassing.
As an adult, you're losing money every week...
by gambling,
but your son who grew up...
watching you can't do it?
Then you should stop first.
I think their daughter is here too. Let's to talk to their daughter.
What's your biggest worry as a daughter?
I have a daughter who is 28 months old.
Also, my sister-in-law will give birth in two months.
I'm worried that...
he would be a bad influence...
to our children.
That's highly likely.
When my parents do something, I copy without realizing.
My mother likes to clean up at home,
so I like to clean up as well.
If my father likes to play games, I like to play games.
- I copy them without realizing. - That's what happens.
They're like reflections.
Children reflect their own parents.
(He must remember children are reflections of their parents.)
I don't know how wealthy you are,
but if you continue to lose 4,000 dollars or so every month,
it gets big.
Aren't you worried about your old age?
I'm slowly preparing for my old age.
- How? - We should ask the mother.
He said he's preparing. How is he preparing for it?
I don't know.
- Is he preparing in secret? - There's nothing he's preparing.
He's relying on his wife.
Ma'am, have you ever thought this?
"You should spend on this for me instead of gambling."
- What should he spend on? - Let's say the money is yours.
- I have thought about it. - What would you want to do with it?
I want to go on a trip abroad and get proper rest.
- You should do that. - For a couple of months.
- I want to go on a group tour. - You want to travel.
I'm sure you want to buy nice things for yourself too.
He's lost about 400,000 to 500,000 dollars...
at casinos in the last 15 years, right?
Our production team prepared a clip to show us what the two of them...
can do with that amount of money.
They can live in Hawaii for a month with about 10,000 dollars.
- A cruise to Latin America. - That will cost...
- about 30,000 dollars. - My gosh.
- A month in Latin America. - Yes. And...
this is a luxurious private jet.
Can they be on that jet?
You can go around the world on that jet for a month...
- For how much? - for 300,000 dollars.
You two could've done all of that.
- My goodness. - The two of you.
But you chose to spend all that money on casino machines...
- instead. - What a waste.
Have you ever thought how futile it is after losing money?
Have you thought about quitting?
I've thought that countless times.
I'd tell myself, "I shouldn't even pee in that direction."
I'd make up my mind like that, but when I lie down after work,
- the machine itself... - The machine?
- Right. - It'd be floating in front of me.
Right, I get it.
I can't stop thinking about hitting the jackpot...
and the imagery of money being poured out.
My mind would be literally filled with those thoughts and images.
On some days,
they keep me up all night.
I get no sleep whatsoever.
I'd be wide-eyed all night long.
- I can't resist it. - As the weekend approaches...
- Yes. - You look forward to the weekend.
- Do you get excited? - Yes.
Then why do you keep insisting that you're not addicted?
I'm not addicted.
- Sorry? - Sir.
Some spend four days at casinos.
The number of days isn't important, sir.
You said that you see the machine on your ceiling when you wake up.
- Yes, that does happen. - That is an addiction.
- You're dying to go there. - You're definitely addicted.
You said you'd never pee in that direction, but you do it there.
- You even use the sauna there. - Exactly.
We already know how hard it is to beat addiction.
Have you ever considered seeking help from an expert?
I don't think it's that serious yet.
I do think that I should try to go less often.
I see. We actually spoke to an expert...
and explained your situation in detail to him.
I heard he offered a few words of advice for you.
Let's watch it together.
He has been spending a lot more...
than what he earns on gambling.
His family is struggling and suffering because of it,
but he still can't quit it.
Considering everything, I believe that he has a gambling addiction.
(He is a gambling addict.)
He hasn't been able to quit for a long time,
and the frequency actually keeps increasing.
I think it'll be hard for him to quit without help from an expert.
- Right. - The frequency keeps increasing.
- Exactly. - The amount keeps going up too.
How does that make you feel?
I think what he said is right,
but it'll be extremely hard for me to quit cold turkey.
- I'll gradually cut down. - No, that won't work.
Then you'll only quit when you lose everything and become penniless.
No, I don't think that will happen.
- You don't sound sure about it. - Exactly. Sir, you should...
You should have a session with a counselor.
"That's embarrassing. I'm not some weirdo."
"Why should I meet a counselor?" Don't think like that.
I'll tell you why. Let's say you have pain here.
But you do a self-diagnosis...
and tell yourself that you don't have to see a doctor.
Making such a decision on your own can be very risky.
You and your son should go see a counselor, even just once.
- I'll try. - Please make sure you go.
You should put off going to the casino...
and go to Hawaii with your family. It's your wife's wish.
Please make her wish come true.
We can go to Hawaii anytime in the future.
Why would you put it off?
That's the case for the casino too.
You should go to Hawaii first. Save that money for the trip.
What do you think, sir?
I'll try my best.
- You'll see a counselor too, right? - Good.
(Please make sure to keep your promise.)
It must've taken a lot of courage for you to come here.
Please tell your dad how you want him to change.
He said that he'd try to change,
but my mom is really having a hard time because of this problem.
I hope he can consider these things...
and try to cut down a lot.
Ma'am, please say a few words. Tell him directly.
I want you to stop going there.
- Quit it completely. - I'll try my best.
(We could feel that he really meant it.)
Thank you very much, sir.
If your addiction worsens,
- you'd find that machine boring. - Totally.
- You'll play higher-limit machines. - Exactly.
Think about the 1st time you went to a casino 15 years ago.
You must've changed, and you know it.
- It's gotten worse. - Of course.
The problem will keep getting worse at an accelerating rate.
- Please remember that. - Yes.
(We hope you overcome it.)
I'll ask the guests first. Do you think it's a worry?
- Yes, I do. - I see.
- Daniel. - It's a heavy topic.
As you know, I'm living away from my family at the moment,
and I miss my mom as I can't see her often.
You should try to spend more time with your family...
and make many happy memories with them.
- Is it a worry, then? - I think it's a worry.
Please press the button if you empathize with the worry.
(What does the audience think?)
It's like the slot machine sound.
- 5, 4, 3... - How many votes will it get?
- 2, 1. - People keep pressing it.
- Stop! - Time's up.
Sir, didn't the sound remind you of the casino?
(That cracked him up.)
Aren't I right?
Didn't it get you excited?
- Yes, it did. - I knew it.
Sir, please say something to your family, especially to your son...
- who's so worried about you. - Don't let him down.
Thanks to you, I got to visit a broadcasting station like this.
I'll do my best to cut back...
as much as I can.
I'll only go 1 or 2 times a year.
- Gosh, that's amazing! - Oh, my.
It won't be easy,
but I'll try my very best.
You have my word, Son.
(I'll do my best to keep the promise.)
Please say something to your wife too.
As you know, she's always been there for you.
Why are you crying?
(His son is getting emotional too.)
I know how much you've been through.
I'll do my best to stay away from the casino from now on.
(Don't forget about your family.)
Kiss her on the cheek.
(Give her a kiss on the cheek.)
- Do it! - Come on.
Nice. Look at that.
If you only go once or twice a year, you two can go together.
Last but not least, ask everything you want to know.
(We'll give you a chance to ask away.)
All right. Sir, you should nail down the details now.
- Sounds good. - When and how much?
- On your birthday. - Twice a year.
- You can't bet 100,000 dollars. - Please don't do that.
- Never. - You absolutely can't do that.
- It's dangerous. - What if he bets 500,000 dollars?
- 2017 is almost gone. - You said you'd only go twice.
I'll go sometime in mid-September,
then on Christmas Eve.
(He'll gamble on Christmas Eve.)
- How much? - How much will you spend?
- Tell us. - How much will you bet?
As for the amount...
- How much in September? - I'll only go twice, so...
(How much will you spend?)
I'll spend 3,000 dollars each time.
That's a lot of money. Goodness.
I'll only go twice a year though.
Ma'am, are you okay with this?
- Twice a year. - Yes.
- Yes. - I see.
- 3,000 dollars? - That is a lot of money.
- It's too much. - With 3,000 dollars, you can...
- It is a lot. - 3,000 dollars.
- Indeed. - How much should he spend?
- Up to 1,000 dollars. - 1,000.
- 1,000 dollars. - What?
(Displeased)
He couldn't believe his ears.
He's not okay with that.
Anyway, you promised that you'd only go to the casino twice a year.
(The change begins today.)
All right. Please show us the result.
So many people pressed the button.
- Among 200 audience members... - I think it'll get over 150 votes.
- 190? - I think it'll be over 150.
- 180? - 170.
- 160? - It got 170 votes.
Amazing.
(The story received 170 votes.)
The title of this story is "I Want to Cry".
Hello, I live in Busan with my beautiful wife and 2-year-old son.
I'll get another precious present this December...
because my baby girl will be born then.
"Darling, shall I do something for our princess' prenatal education?"
"Forget it. I don't have time for that."
"Are you craving anything? Shall I pick up something?"
"No, thanks. I'm busy."
Other women try to only see and eat good things during pregnancy,
but my wife can't do that.
It's because she's the worst workaholic you'll ever meet.
Gosh, she works too much.
I'd ask, "Darling, your baby bump has gotten pretty big."
"Can you stop working?"
"Why should I? I have to be happy for our baby to be happy."
"No problem. I'll see you after work."
She teaches English...
at a school, and she even tutors and teaches after-school classes.
She doesn't even have time to eat.
How can she be like that when she's pregnant? One day...
"Gosh, I'm so dizzy. Honey, I'm seeing stars."
She was taken to an emergency room because she fainted.
(She ended up in an emergency room because she fainted.)
"Are you all right? Let's go home so you can rest."
"No problem. I'm fine now. I'll see you after work."
She insists on going to work even when she's not well enough at all.
Will my princess be born without any problems?
He says he's desperate for our help.
(Please stop my wife.)
What will you do if your wife is like that?
Let's say your future wife is a workaholic.
- I'd be so worried. - Right.
Will you make her work though?
- No, I won't make her work. - Will you just worry?
- I'll make her stop. - You'll make her quit?
Daniel, try to imagine your future wife being pregnant.
- Okay. - Your wife.
Right.
- But she keeps... - What is the matter with you all?
She has to eat well and get enough rest for your baby,
but she keeps working nonstop.
I'll have to lock her up at home.
- You won't let her leave the house? - That's right.
- You won't let her go out. - I will save her in the house.
- I will save you in the house. - I will save you in the house.
(He is saying the expression for the 3,501st time today.)
If my wife is pregnant,
I will work.
Most husbands think that way.
Shall to invite him to the stage?
He is worried about his workaholic wife.
Please come on out.
(Who is worried about his workaholic wife?)
(Hello.)
(Kang Seul Gi)
(Welcome.)
Please tell us about your wife's job.
She is an English instructor. She is a workaholic.
She really is.
Her first class starts 10am...
and her last class ends at 10pm.
- She works 12 hours. - She works from 10am to 10pm.
She teaches privately, at schools, and academies.
Since she has about 10 to 11 lessons in a day,
she misses her meals very often.
Not only that, she tries to work in the weekend.
- She doesn't take a rest. - No.
She makes appointments on Sundays...
to make up for missed classes.
Since when was she a workaholic?
My wife is Korean American.
When she was nine years old, she moved to the US.
She lived there for about 15 years...
before coming to Korea three years ago.
She and I met and got married after three months.
You dated for three months.
You have skills.
You got married after 100 days of relationship.
There must be something great about you.
(I can't help but smile.)
Seriously.
There were times I couldn't reach her...
- when we were in a relationship. - Seriously?
Sometimes, we could only see each other for less than an hour.
How did you decide to marry her in such a short period of time?
I didn't know the depth of her problem.
I only thought that she works hard.
- When we got married... - I am not talking about that.
How did you get married when you barely had time to meet?
It just happened that way.
All right.
(There must have been something special.)
When do you worry about her the most?
I worry about her every day.
A lot of pregnant women get education...
- for prenatal development. - That's right.
They eat well and take care of their health.
My wife works every day.
She barely eats when she is working.
She comes home late at night.
Does she eat late-night snacks?
She only eats a little because she has a small appetite.
- It's not good for the baby. - I know.
- She needs to eat a lot. - How many months pregnant is she?
- She is 6 months pregnant. - 6 months.
A lot of pregnant women work...
- when they are six months pregnant. - That's right.
Perhaps you are being too anxious.
Our first child was born prematurely.
I see.
The baby was premature.
- She worked too much. - She worked without rest.
Her body must have been exhausted from working constantly...
because she gave birth a month before the due date.
- She gave birth a month before. - It must have been sudden.
She went to an emergency room during work.
- I ran over when I got the call. - She was working.
- Yes. - It's unbelievable.
The doctor said the baby will come out early.
"Did she work a lot? Did she skip meals?"
The doctor asked me those questions.
I was shocked.
Because the baby was born prematurely,
he had to go into the incubator.
You must have been worried.
Despite everything that happened, she doesn't take care of herself.
No. She thinks it's okay since our first child is healthy now.
Workaholics tend to work...
right after giving birth.
- That's right. - Did your wife do that?
She left the hospital...
two days after giving birth.
She didn't work, did she?
She left the hospital and worked that day.
Two days after childbirth?
Did she leave the hospital and work two days after childbirth?
Yes, I tried very hard to stop her.
- Her body needs to recuperate. - Not only that,
her child was in an incubator.
Despite being worried, she still went to work.
- Yes, she did. - My goodness.
(They are speechless.)
- You could tell her to rest. - I tell her that very often.
- I think I say it 10 times a day. - Then what does she say?
Whenever I bring up the topic, we end up having a fight.
After a few hours of fighting, she says,
"I am going to go back to the US with the child."
"If you don't let me work, I will go back to the US."
- She always says that. - Why does she do that?
Let's talk to Seul Gi's wife. Hello.
- Hello. - It's nice to meet you.
(Who is the workaholic wife?)
Do you understand your husband's worry?
I don't think it's a worry.
Would you stand up for a second so that we can see how thin you are?
- Please make a turn. - She is tall.
(She doesn't look pregnant.)
Although she is six months pregnant, her stomach isn't protruding.
I can't believe you are six months pregnant.
Please keep talking.
- Are you six months pregnant? - Yes, I am.
I am doing what I like.
I majored in Education in university.
Since my students follow my curriculum,
I keep on working. I don't know why he worries so much.
- You know, - Yes.
it's hard to work when you are pregnant.
You need to eat well for your baby.
I am a bit unsure about the standards.
- When you... - What?
You aren't using English words on purpose, are you?
(The ex-Crazy Cow)
You are speaking as you normally do.
I am a bit unsure about the standards of overworking.
If I am unfit for work,
I should be unable to walk or stand.
In that state,
I should stay at home.
- You should stay at home. - You should stay at home.
That's right.
I am sure it's the same in the US. In Korea,
pregnant women get a maternity leave because work can get hard.
- That's right. - You know that, right?
Maternity leave exists in the US.
It usually lasts about a week.
- That's the case in the US. - For a week,
you rest at home without doing anything...
and return to work.
Don't women eat seaweed soup after giving birth in the US?
- Seaweed soup? - Yes.
I want to eat seaweed soup in the US.
Don't women eat soup after giving birth?
There are no limitations in the US.
You can do whatever you want.
There are too many rules in Korea.
You can't eat hard or spicy food.
- You can't eat cold food. - You can't take a cold shower.
You must wear socks. You can't wear shorts.
There are a lot of rules. In the US, it's like, "No problem."
No problem.
Since your first child was born prematurely,
you must have been worried.
Don't you think you should take care of your body?
To be honest, I don't worry too much about the future.
YOLO.
You only live once.
YOLO.
(Laughing)
Thus,
if I am feeling okay,
healthy, and happy today,
everything is okay.
Your happiness matters first and foremost.
Yes, I need to be happy...
for my family to be happy.
Such mentality not only exists in the US,
but also in Korea. Look at him,
He lives for his happiness.
He enjoys his Sundays.
(He enjoys his Sundays.)
- He goes all in on Sundays. - You only live on Sundays.
The thing is,
your husband doesn't understand.
What will you do if he continues to be this way?
In that case, I will go to the US.
You will leave him behind.
Then why did you marry your husband?
(Then why did you marry your husband?)
I wonder why.
Oh, my goodness.
What did you like so much about him that you decided to marry him...
- in such a short amount of time? - My husband?
Here is my first reason.
He is handsome.
(My goodness.)
- What other reasons do you have? - He is handsome.
(He looks a bit like Ji Sung.)
What's your second reason?
He listens to me well.
That's right.
What's your third reason?
He sacrificed many things for me.
(He knows how to sacrifice for his wife.)
Do you think he is handsomer than member of Wanna One?
(Who will be her pick?)
I am really sorry, but I don't know who they are.
(What did you say?)
It's understandable if she doesn't watch TV.
Do you think your husband is handsomer than them?
Yes.
She is a beautiful woman.
We are down one competitor. It's okay.
We are down one competitor.
- It's not a crime to work. - That's right.
- What matters the most... - She is enjoying it.
is her happiness.
She visited the emergency three times on her first pregnancy.
- Three times? - Yes. She worked too hard.
Every time she went, the doctor asked,
"Did she overwork herself? Did she skip meals?"
The doctor asked us that.
It's the same this time. A few days ago,
she collapsed during a class.
My goodness.
It's a problem.
She said she suddenly saw dark.
When I ran to the hospital, the doctor said...
- it's orthostatic hypotension. - What's that?
It's low blood pressure that comes from standing for a long time.
(It's an occupational illness.)
- She teaches a lot of classes. - She collapses when she stands.
Even when she was in the emergency room,
she worried about the students she left behind.
She is a workaholic through and through.
In my opinion, the doctor's words...
were as good as "Eat well."
When my husband came, I said,
"Don't worry. I only need to eat well."
Now that I eat well, I am fine.
- That's why I can be here. - Why don't you eat?
- I have a class after another. - They are back to back.
I don't notice the passing time when I teach classes.
I need to stay focused on my students.
She doesn't worry a bit.
It must worry you to see her so optimistic.
- I know. - She is very optimistic.
- That's right. - How does it make you feel?
I am always worried.
I live in Busan.
My wife goes to work in Yangsan.
- Yangsan. - Yes.
It takes an hour by car.
It takes two hours to go to and from Yangsan.
My wife always drives.
- She drives. - Yes.
What will she do if she goes into labor in the car?
When she was 4 months pregnant with the 2nd child,
she was driving and passing through a tollgate.
A car suddenly cut in.
My wife was so startled that she turned the handle...
and stopped the car just before hitting the guardrail.
She called me right after.
I was so flustered when I heard what happened...
that I yelled at her to stop working.
- "I'm fine." - Right.
(I'm fine.)
- "No problem." - "It's okay."
Back then,
I almost got into an accident.
However, I didn't get into an accident.
I didn't get into an accident. It's okay.
- Most people on that side say that. - You almost got into an accident.
That's right. I almost got into an accident,
but it just ended as an exciting event.
(She is cool.)
An exciting event?
- An exciting event? - You know,
the fetus is at risk when you are four months pregnant.
When you stepped on the brakes,
- didn't your stomach hurt? - You shouldn't get startled.
No, I called my husband right away and said,
"Oh, my goodness. This just happened."
My husband was throwing a fit,
but I said, "I turned the handle just in time. I am okay."
"Don't worry."
She renewed a contract with her workplace...
without telling me.
- It's for lessons. - How often does it happen?
A contract is renewed every three months.
- She will work 3 more months. - Since she is 6 months pregnant,
she will be in the last month of pregnancy three months later.
Why did you renew your contract without telling your husband?
You might be giving birth.
That's right. You will be nine months pregnant.
I knew we would only get into a fight.
If I am happy doing what makes me happy,
my husband should be understanding if he truly loves me.
The opposite applies.
If you love your husband,
you should comfort your husband...
if he is so worried.
I guess I could work less hours,
but I don't think of it as work since I enjoy what I do.
- It doesn't feel like work to you. - No.
If you were determined to continue working,
you could have thought about having the second child later.
Didn't you discuss that with your husband?
Was it a surprise?
Was it an exciting event?
(Was it an exciting event?)
You didn't discuss it with your husband.
My husband made a mistake.
It's an exciting event!
(Life is full of exciting events.)
(Embarrassed)
Why are you covering your face? Why are you so embarrassed?
- Nothing. - All right.
You are a good actor.
"I don't know anything."
Despite the cultural difference,
she is doing an amazing work.
The more we listen to her, the more persuaded we become.
She seems like a cool woman.
People who don't know about this...
thinks I force my pregnant wife to work.
- People misunderstand. - Yes.
- My acquaintances misunderstand. - "You shouldn't do that."
Another problem is my mother-in-law.
That's right. She must be annoyed that you don't make her daughter...
quit work.
It's not like she lives far.
She lives five minutes away from us.
My goodness.
Let's talk to Seul Gi's mother-in-law.
- Hello. - Hello.
Are you his mother-in-law?
- I thought she was a friend. - Seriously.
- Are you his mother-in-law? - Yes.
- That's incredible. - That's incredible.
How old are you? My goodness, excuse me.
I am sorry. I shouldn't have asked.
I was born in 1963.
You were born in 1963.
- Yes. - She looks very young.
(My goodness)
Do you understand your son-in-law's worry?
I understand, but it makes me sad...
to see my daughter work so much.
When do you worry about your daughter the most?
When she was in 12th grade,
her father passed away due to cancer.
- My goodness. - He passed away.
Since I struggled to support the family alone,
she studied hard to receive scholarship.
- She is a good daughter. - She even had two part-time jobs.
She worked hard even back then.
It makes my heart ache to see her...
do the same in Korea.
I want her to think about her health. subtitles ripped and synced by riri13
Seul Gi must be wary of you...
a little bit.
He should be wary of me.
At first,
I was against the marriage.
(My goodness)
He came to ask for my blessing after a short period of dating.
- No parents would be happy. - You are right.
I didn't treat him badly after they got married.
I was very nice to him.
You speak in a dialect when you are upset.
- She speaks in a dialect. - It can't be helped.
I was very nice to him.
I am a very nice mother-in-law.
You look that way.
- I do, right? - Yes.
I made breakfast for him every day.
(His mother-in-law made breakfast for him every day.)
I cooked, washed laundry, and babysat their child.
You even babysat their child.
Those around me said,
"Your son-in-law must have saved a nation in his past life."
"That must be why he got such a nice mother-in-law."
(That's incredible.)
She is praising herself.
It must have been hard to look after them all the time.
Yes, it was hard.
Of course it was.
I got three surgeries since I came to Korea.
Really?
I got a surgery for thyroid cancer...
and hysterectomy.
A year later, I had to get my gallbladder removed.
Right after I got my gallbladder removed,
I left the hospital and babysat my grandchild.
(I left the hospital and babysat my grandchild.)
My goodness.
(My goodness)
- It must have been hard. - You know,
your mother is in poor health. Must you work and make her babysit?
She wanted to find work,
so I offered her money...
in exchange of babysitting.
I get that you pay her,
but your mother was ill.
You should have put your work aside...
and taken care of your mother.
My mother looked happy...
when she was babysitting.
However, her gallbladder was gone.
(He is witty.)
I was in pain.
When you get married, you are no longer a child.
"We" trumps "I".
Your mother needed rest.
If your child needed to be watched, you should have put work aside...
and taken care...
- of your child and mother. - That's right.
That's why I asked my husband to quit work.
What? You asked your husband to quit work?
It's completely different from what we thought.
She is cool.
(She is the best.)
Why did you ask your husband to quit work?
I make enough for the family.
- You can support the family. - That's right.
She is cool.
Sometimes, one parent must quit work to take care of the child.
That's why I am responsible for child-rearing and chores.
You are responsible for them.
I wake up and go to work briefly...
to look around the restaurant.
My child attends a daycare center.
I drop him off and visit the restaurant once more.
Then it's time to pick up the child...
from the daycare center.
Then I come home and do the dishes and wash the dirty laundry.
I do everything I can do.
Does she not lift a finger at home?
She is tired when she comes home. After we have dinner,
she could put the dirty dishes in the sink.
She doesn't even do that.
- She just leaves the table. - Yes.
That hurts my feelings.
Now that you are responsible for everything,
you won't make any more mistakes, right?
How many children do you want?
How many of those do I want?
It's "them".
- It's "them", not "those". - It's "them".
How many of them do I want?
- Like 4? - You want 4 children.
She wants four children.
If he needs to take care of the children...
Ji Hoon, even though you aren't saying a word,
you must be listening carefully to Dong Yeob's words.
Your ears became red.
(You are a man.)
Ji Hoon, did you understand?
(A little bit)
He knows more than you.
My goodness.
(Blushing)
Their son is here.
- Let's talk to him for a second. - There he is.
- How cute! - How cute!
Look at him.
How handsome!
My goodness.
Daniel, please hold the child.
- How cute! - Give the child...
- to Daniel. - He must have cried.
- It's Dad. - How handsome!
How cute!
- Hello. - He cried.
He cried.
My goodness.
Look over here.
- How cute! - Look at his hand.
- Say hello. Hello. - Hello.
What's his name?
- Ah Ron. - Ah Ron?
- Ah Ron. - What a pretty name!
- Ah Ron. - Ah Ron.
- His shoes are tiny. - Hello, Ah Ron.
- Ah Ron. - Why did you cry?
Daniel, do you want to hold him?
You should do that.
- He doesn't want to go. - He doesn't want to go.
- He doesn't want to go. - I am sorry.
He misses his mother.
Maybe he will react to a woman better.
Ah Ron.
(Crying)
He is crying.
(Yeong Ja doesn't know much about children.)
You are scared.
Why did you make the child cry?
Yeong Ja isn't a bad man. Don't cry.
My goodness.
(Startled)
(She's even more startled.)
Broadcast this just as it happened.
No, no.
(Will Yeong Ja have 10,000 haters?)
No, no.
(Her body is heavy, but she apologizes quickly.)
I'll be ruined.
(Oh, gosh.)
Her husband's close friend is here.
Hello. It's nice to meet you.
Hello. I'm Um Chang Soo, and I'm 30 years old.
You're not living with her, but I'm sure you can understand him.
I think I can understand him.
I visited his wife to the hospital after she gave birth.
- I heard she bled during pregnancy. - Goodness.
I heard she wasn't in good shape,
and she was lying in the bed the whole time.
I called him to ask about her later,
- and he said she went home. - She went home two days later.
When is he stressed out the most?
As I have a girlfriend too, we go on a double date sometimes.
We had to cancel our plans because of his wife many times.
It's because she feels too tired...
- when she gets home. - She mostly sleeps at home.
She always sleeps at home.
- I'm getting married next month. - I see.
If my wife works like she does,
I think I would feel very lonely,
especially because she's carrying a baby.
I would be worried a lot.
You'd be glad if she works moderately and earns money, right?
- My wife? - Yes.
Yes, I would be very happy.
We hear many worries like this on Hello...
except that it's always the husband who works too hard.
(Their roles are reversed.)
Bye, baby.
- Bye. - Isn't he taken to his mom?
(Wait for a while, Ah Ron.)
(Ah Ron starts crying.)
(Bye, Ah Ron.)
Do you think it's right that your husband does all of house chores...
and looking after your child?
I'm always grateful for him.
It's not that I don't look after my child at all.
I'm doing the work that I like, so...
- However, as we told you before, - Yes.
you don't even put your plate in the sink.
(Gosh, that's not a big deal.)
That means you don't try to help him.
To be honest, it's understandable that I can't do that.
I have to finish eating quickly and go to work.
He complains that I don't eat or clean up.
Are you saying he shouldn't tell you to eat?
That's right. He shouldn't tell me to eat in the first place.
He tells you to eat because he worries about you.
- That's why I eat. - Okay.
He complains about that even though I eat as he told me to.
Imagine that your husband is workaholic just like you.
He wants to open his store for 24 hours a day.
He doesn't even come home. He eats and sleeps there.
How would you feel?
That's not acceptable.
- Why can't he do that? - He should look after the baby.
Talk with the man behind you.
- Why can't he do that when you can? - Exactly.
- That seat has weird power. - Right.
(Everyone sitting here becomes shameless.)
- Anyone would agree with us. - It's sad because...
- time doesn't come back. - That's right.
There are moments when your baby is adorable...
- and innocent. - Yes.
But you're missing all those moments.
I don't think I'm missing them.
Of course. That's why she doesn't change.
It's not like I don't spend time with my child.
It's not like my child cries whenever he sees me,
or refuses to come to me.
We understand that you're happy with your life,
but can you spend less time working for your family?
I can do that, but I don't want to.
- All right. - She keeps saying that.
We're repeating the same thing.
I think she has a healthy mindset,
and works really hard.
She grew up in a different cultural environment.
- That's right. - Considering that,
I think it's understandable.
Also, you must've married her because you liked that about her.
- I liked that about her. - Right?
Every couple has their own way...
to lead their marriage.
Do you think you can try to understand her?
- Should we switch the seats? - What are you doing?
- I've never convinced a guest. - Should I go there?
I'm sorry. It's impossible to convince your wife.
- What if she quits her job... - She's so proud of herself.
She's pregnant now.
- He must be worried about her. - You want her to...
- work less just during pregnancy. - That's right.
- After she gives birth... - She can go back to work.
- She can go back to work. - Yes.
Finally, we found a solution.
Can you work less only during your pregnancy?
She already renewed her contract.
- I see. - She can't do that now.
Please say something to your wife for the last time.
- Goodbye. - All right.
Tell your wife that you'll be nicer to her from now on.
It's good that you work hard,
but I don't need anything else.
I'll earn money. You take a break.
He's so cool. He's great.
"I'll earn money. You take a break."
Let's start with Min Hyun. Do you think it's a worry?
- I still think it's a worry. - I see.
- I think it's a worry too. - Okay.
I'm worried about her health.
But I think she's so cool.
I agree with him.
(Ji Hoon thinks it's a worry too.)
I think she should take a break at least during pregnancy.
Give her a wink telling her to take a break.
(His wink makes all women's hearts.)
How do you feel now that he winked at you?
(I'll save you in my heart.)
(One more time!)
Everyone, this is actually a beautiful love story.
Every couple has an issue regarding their habits,
and the way of leading their lives.
That's why they're here. Press the button if you agree with him.
(What does the audience think?)
- All right. 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Time's up. - Stop.
Please say a word to your loving husband.
Honey.
I love you very much.
I'm always so grateful for you.
Thank you for raising Ah Ron so well.
- "Thank you for raising Ah Ron." - She's the head of the family.
- She's the head of the family. - It's impossible to argue that.
She's the head of the family.
Thank you, and let's live happily together for the rest of our lives.
Let's see how many votes he got. Please show us the result.
(The result)
The previous guest got 170 votes.
(How many votes will he get?)
("I Want To Cry", 113 votes)
(He got 113 votes.)
Thank you for coming.
There's a role that I need you to play.
- Please play Girl Two. - Okay.
- Min Hyun, you're Girl Two. - Okay.
Hello. I'm a cheerful 17-year-old high school girl.
Weirdly, whenever I'm with my elder sister, I get so much attention.
"Is she your sister? She's so pretty."
"My goodness. She looks like a doll."
Girl Two.
"But look at you."
"Why is your face so ugly?"
People always compare my face to my sister's.
However, my friends aren't the worst to deal with.
It's my sister.
"Have a look at yourself in the mirror. How ugly you are."
"You're so annoying. Go away."
- Gosh. Her sister said that? - Oh, my.
Whenever we run into my sister's friends...
It's a male friend.
- Daniel. - "Is she your younger sister?"
"Gosh. You guys look so different."
This can't be true.
"Was she adopted or something?"
(The audience is astounded.)
"Was she adopted or something?"
(I didn't know it'd be an evil character.)
(That's mean!)
(You're bad!)
That's what it says.
"Right. I'm sure she was."
"I'm sure she was adopted."
- Her own sister said that? - My sister even said,
"My friends will come over to our house later."
"You keep your head down."
No way. "Keep your head down."
"If you lift your head up, you know what you'll get."
I don't want to become any more miserable.
Please help me.
- Thank you for sharing your story. - Thank you.
Let's meet with the guest. Please come out.
(Who is the girl who's always compared to her sister?)
(Lee Rin)
(She looks just cute.)
Hello.
(Cute and bubbly)
She looks so cute.
- You're so cute. - Exactly.
- She's so pretty. - She's cute.
Please say hello.
Hello. I'm a 17-year-old high school student.
I'm Lee Rin. It's nice to meet you.
- Her name is pretty. - She's cute.
(She's adorable.)
How bad is it? Did your sister really say these things?
She said everything I wrote.
Did she say that in a dismissive tone?
- Yes, she did. - How pretty is she?
- Actually... - You're pretty too.
we're going to a traditional music school in Jindo-gun.
As we live in the countryside,
there aren't many people who look extraordinarily pretty.
I think she's quite pretty in the area.
Tell us some stories that prove how popular she is.
When my male friends see her,
they say, "My gosh, is she even a real person?"
They say that she looks like a doll,
and I look so ugly,
- so I should keep my head down. - I'm worried.
We know who her sister is.
Whenever she said how people compliment her sister,
everyone in the audience looked at her sister, and made this look.
(Gosh, I can't believe it.)
Her sister is very anxious now.
(She feels uncomfortable.)
My sister's name is Lee Ji.
- Lee Ji? - Lee Ji?
All the people around me said,
"Your nickname is Ugly Lee Ji."
When I began high school, her friends said...
when they saw me, "Is she really your sister?"
- "Wasn't she adopted?" - Gosh.
- Did you really hear them say that? - Yes, I did.
They said that in front of me, but my sister said...
- Why would they say such a thing? - Exactly.
My sister didn't even deny it. She just said,
- "I think she was adopted." - My goodness.
- Your sister did? - Yes.
She must've been joking. She wouldn't have meant it.
It's just that it's hard to believe.
At first, I thought she was joking.
However, she said things like that repeatedly.
Sometimes I doubt she's my real sister.
You must feel that way.
When she told you to keep your head down, she was joking, right?
I once went to Jeonju with her to see a concert.
- Jeonju? - She whispered in my ear.
She told me not to lift my head up because it's embarrassing.
She told me to keep my head down wearing a hat she gave me.
Why didn't you fight back when she said such things?
One time, I got really angry.
As we go to a traditional music school,
- we have many musical instruments. - I see.
There were janggu sticks beside me.
- Did you hit her with it? - Did you two fight?
I hit her with it.
The stick was broken.
We fought intensely pulling each other's hair.
- Oh, gosh. - But she's your elder sister.
You guys go to a traditional music high school.
You should've had a janggu battle.
(Traditional music battle)
That's right.
(The winner of this battle is me.)
- That's mean. - However,
if Rin has serious hang-ups...
about her face,
we might've been flustered...
when we saw her sliding down.
- But we all thought she's cute. - Of course.
She's cute.
- I came to doubt it's a true story. - Right.
- I think that's why I doubt it. - We'll reveal her sister's face.
The viewers haven't seen her sister yet.
Will they understand her worries? Rin's sister.
Where are you?
- Hello. - Hello.
Please introduce yourself.
I'm Rin's elder sister. I'm 19 years old.
I'm her sister.
Your younger sister came here because she has an issue.
- As you listened to her... - I don't think it's a worry.
I'm her family. When I tease her,
she shouldn't take it so seriously.
When your friends teased her, you didn't stand up for her.
You joined them to tease her. That's what we don't understand.
I teased her with them because her reaction is funny.
How does she react?
She can't cry or laugh.
- She doesn't know what to do. - Do you think it's funny?
- That's mean. - Yes, I do.
- For example... - Daniel just raised his hand.
- Okay. Go ahead. - You be quiet.
How dare you?
(Lee Yeong Ja, a powerful fan)
I can't believe you.
She said people asked if she was adopted.
- Is that true? - Yes.
Everyone in my family except for her have double eyelids.
Hers are not natural.
You didn't have to say that.
(Booing)
Are you saying that she had a plastic surgery?
That's right.
- These days, - She had her eyes done.
- That's right. - a lot of students do that...
- during their school breaks. - You look pretty.
I was asked if she was adopted before she had her eyes done.
I jokingly said, "I think she was adopted."
Doesn't it offend you when your friends say that?
They offended your own sister.
Look at her face. It's so...
- She looks... - She has no choice.
- They're older than her. - What would she say?
Do you think her flustered face is funny?
Yes, I do.
- It breaks my heart to see her. - I felt the same.
- It broke my heart too. - Me too.
Imagine that you're in the opposite situation. Her friends say,
"Your sister is not that pretty. Why would she be so mean?"
And your sister says, "I know. She's delusional."
"She's so annoying." She says that in front of her friends.
Would that make you feel bad or not?
- I'd feel insulted, but... - Right.
She doesn't stop teasing you saying your reaction is funny.
Then, I have to punch her.
Exactly.
(Do you know how I feel now?)
I don't know if you didn't want to tell us about it,
but your sister just told us that you had your eyes done.
- Do you want us to edit it? - She must not like it.
When people see my face on TV,
they'll see the scar anyway. I don't mind.
- They'll see the scar? - No way.
Your eyes don't look natural?
I didn't know you had your eyes done.
- I didn't know either. - Me neither.
- I really didn't know that. - Me neither.
I thought they were natural.
Everyone here said you're pretty.
Why did you have your eyes done?
Because my eyes looked different from the ones of my family members,
I was compared to my sister. So I decided to have a surgery.
However, whenever she sees me,
she says, "You're a plastic surgery monster now."
"Yours are artificial, and mine are natural."
Do you think you're very pretty?
No, but I think I look better than her.
Do you really have to discourage your sister...
to feel happier?
She didn't have that low self esteem before.
She performs outside of the school often.
Many boys in the front row scream when she performs,
and many of them call her.
She brags about it to me often.
She irks me whenever she does that.
I don't think it's the right time for her to date a boy.
- Are you jealous? - No, I'm not.
I just don't want her to be interested in boys.
That's why I acted like that.
- On purpose? - She's just popular.
She had too much self esteem.
I think it's you who have too much self esteem.
That's not true.
She's not like that now.
(Worry about yourself.)
(That feels good.)
We heard both sides of the story.
It's hard to tell the truth.
Rin's friend is here as well.
- Hello. - Hello.
How close are you with Rin?
We've known each other for about two years.
Could it be that you heard Wanna One members would be here,
and you forced her to bring you here when you're not...
that close friends with her?
- No. We're really close. - That's not the case.
- You know what I mean. - When she heard they'd be here,
she said, "I'm your closest friend."
- She threatened Rin. - No.
As you're her close friend, do you understand why she's worried?
When Rin and I ran into Ji in the corridor, Ji said,
"Your face is so ugly. I think you need a plastic surgery."
- Ji said that? - Yes. Rin hit her lightly,
and said, "She's so annoying."
(In an annoyed tone)
- That was good. - She's so talented.
She's good at acting.
I've been watching Ji for one and a half years.
I think she's a little... Should I say she's selfish?
A little bit.
- What did she say? - She said Ji is selfish.
- Does she only care about herself? - What makes you think so?
- She must feel uncomfortable. - Ji uses Rin's things...
such as her skin care products, shoes, and clothes.
When Rin tried to borrow something, she said, "How dare you?"
Rin told me that Ji swore at her.
Ji was using Rin's tumbler at school without her permission.
- Her tumbler? - Rin caught her using it.
She told Ji to give it back to her,
but Ji opened the lid and threw the tumbler at Rin's face.
(She threw the tumbler at Rin's face.)
- What? - She got coffee all over her.
- Coffee. - She cried her heart out.
(The sisters' fight is beyond imagination.)
A teacher came to us...
and scolded Rin asking her why she did it to Ji.
- Why? - I think she lied a bit.
(How could you?)
All right. Then...
(Oh, my. I'm sorry.)
- Did you really throw it at her? - She can't deny this.
It's normal for sisters to share their things, right?
- However... - Now you call her your sister?
Well, yes. She caught me and told me to give it back to her.
I gave it to her, and while washing the lid,
she splashed the coffee at me. That made me so angry.
- It was a mistake. - No, it wasn't.
- You know that. - No, it wasn't a mistake.
- It was definitely intentional. - Did you do that intentionally?
No, I didn't.
- We can't tell... - Do you think it was intentional?
It's hard to tell who's telling the truth.
Be quite, everyone! Ji Hoon just raised his hand.
- I'm surprised. - It took him so long.
Do you really feel embarrassed...
when people see your sister?
Rin fools other people a lot...
by faking her photo.
- Many of... - I've done it when I was in school.
my male friends asked me to set them up with Rin.
- Oh, my. - But when they saw her in person,
they were disappointed and shocked.
- Really? - It feels...
a little uncomfortable to see them disappointed.
That's why I try to hide her.
You weren't embarrassed of her, right?
I was embarrassed of her.
(She's so mean.)
I think you should've stood up for Rin...
when your friends were disappointed...
- as sisters normally do. - There's another thing.
You hated how confident Rin was and how she bragged about herself.
Why would you hate that? She's your sister.
You said you're not jealous,
but I'm sure you envy her deep inside.
She was very cute when she was little.
I even wanted to bite her dirty foot.
- When she was younger? - That's how much I adored her.
- We lived in different areas... - You two lived separately?
Yes. When I met her again after a long time,
she had changed completely.
She had a plastic surgery.
She swears a lot.
Also, in front of her friends or mine,
she treats me with disrespect.
- One ill word... - Asks another.
As I lived separately from her,
I became more affectionate for her.
However, when I tried to get closer, she refused me,
and that frustrated me.
She refused to let me get close to her for a long while.
When I saw her in the corridor,
I ran to her while calling her and linked my arm in hers.
She said, "You're gross, you crazy wench."
"Why would you act like we're close?" She looked down at me.
(She has a foul mouth.)
She came to me as if she was the cutest girl in the world.
- She is cute. - No, she isn't.
To be honest, it's disgusting.
What's the harshest thing you've ever said to her?
I said, "Get lost."
- You said, "It's gross. Go away." - Yes, I did.
I wonder how they are at home.
- Who? The sisters? - Yes.
We stay in the dormitory on weekdays,
and we live alone together as we have lessons on weekends.
- Where? - We come to Seoul on weekends.
- I see. - Only on weekends.
- She has no time to eat breakfast. - I see.
So I prepare a lunchbox for her.
You do?
She only says,
"You made the lunchbox, so you wash it."
Which one of you do more house chores?
I do. As for the laundry,
she always fibs...
that she hung the laundry when she didn't.
It's okay.
Kids these days use that expression a lot.
I mean, she lies to me.
She told me to organize the house.
She does a lot of house chores when I didn't even ask.
- But... - It's an act of kindness,
but you think it's your right.
Even if that's true, she takes a credit for it.
I can do that too.
I can do the laundry or dishes.
- You can just do it. - I have my own reasons.
You should do it before she does.
(She's so selfish!)
I have my own reasons.
- I take lessons for over 10 hours. - Raise your hand first.
As I heard them, I think they have had this issue for a long time.
- Of course. - I think it's very complicated.
Their mother came here as well. Let's meet with her.
- Hello. - Hello.
Hello.
Which one of them do you think has a bigger problem?
- When she said she'd be on Hello, - Yes.
- I thought it'd be "Sister Fight". - "Sister Fight".
- I thought it'd be the theme. - I see.
Not long ago, I got a call from their vice principal.
I was told that they had a physical fight and swore at each other.
(They fought again at school?)
They also pulled each other's hair.
I was asked how they should be treated. I was so embarrassed.
When they came home after a long time,
they started quarreling.
I tried to figure out why,
and it turns out Ji borrowed 170 dollars from Rin...
- in total. - Who borrowed money?
Why did you borrow 170 dollars from your sister?
- Actually... - To meet with her boyfriend.
she has a lot of income.
She earns about 2,000 dollars per month.
- From her performances? - Yes.
What is a little sister for? I can use her money.
- So... - Why couldn't you repay her?
- 170 dollars. - I don't get to perform often.
Rin has a lot of gigs.
She's a sought after musician.
I borrowed money from her several times.
She talked to me like a loan shark.
If you had been nicer to her,
she would've just given you that money.
- She wouldn't do that. - As an allowance.
She wouldn't do that.
That's because you've never treated her well.
I treated her nicely many times.
However, she never felt that you were nice to her.
(We hope she puts herself in Rin's shoes.)
Whenever someone criticizes Rin's appearance,
she always tells me,
"It's all your fault that I look like this."
I let her have her eyes done,
and have her teeth straightened.
- Rin... - She worried about pimples,
so I sent her to a dermatologist to cure her pimples.
Frankly, I'm not so pretty myself,
and I never thought Ji was exceptionally beautiful.
She looks pretty because she's my child.
I had a surgery for cerebral aneurysm twice.
I worry about hem...
- because I had brain surgery twice. - I understand.
I told Ji that if I pass early,
- she should play a role of mom. - That's right.
Also, they stay in Seoul on weekends.
It's hard to take care of them.
I hope they will take care of each other...
instead of fighting.
Do you think Ji has a bigger problem...
or Rin is at fault?
- They're just the same. - Of course.
- They're the same. - From my perspective, yes.
Ji, how do you feel now that you heard your mom?
She had brain surgery twice.
I have no intention of getting along well with her.
(She won't make up with Rin?)
- You have no intention? - No intention?
- I don't want to do that. - I see.
You said you lived separately from your sister for a while.
When was that?
- For 3 years in middle school. - For 3 years?
Then, were you not stressed out at all during that period?
- No one would've compared you two. - That's right.
Ji visited me at my school from time to time...
at our school festivals or other events.
Whenever my friends saw her, they said she's so pretty,
and asked what's wrong with me.
"My sister and I are different. That's all."
Or you could've bragged about Ji to your friends.
Do you think that's hard to do?
- I did it. I tried it, - I see.
but she just thinks she's pretty.
Rin is very charming.
That's right. She's so charming.
However, she tends to...
- compare herself to her sister. - Indeed.
She thinks of Ji as her rival.
You would feel comfortable if you think of her as your big sister.
However, she and I go to the same school now.
Everyone around us including our friends at school...
evaluate me based on the comparison to Ji.
You will meet a lot of people who criticize you or stress you out...
- after graduating from school. - Right.
The power to beat them is only inside of you.
No one can improve your self esteem. You must build your own happiness.
I know it's hard, but you have to stand on your own feet.
Do you think you'll be happier if you become prettier?
You won't be.
If you compare Tae Gyun and me...
to Wanna One members, we have to just die.
Right? We don't look...
- I'm so ugly. - We're not handsome.
You know what I mean.
Appearances don't matter that much in life.
Of course, it would be nicer if you're prettier,
- but that's not all in life. - He's right.
Think of what your mother said.
She said both of you are at fault.
I'm sure that she's not fully responsible for everything.
In fact, Ji tends to say hurtful things.
She's straightforward.
If you just talk to her nicely, she might change.
- Of course. - Talk to her nicely.
You two ruined your relationship by treating each other wrongly.
Say what you want to say to her while looking at her.
Ji, why don't you smile a little?
- Smile a little. She's your sister. - I mean...
Please stop teasing me in front of others...
for having my eyes done.
(Stop teasing me.)
Please start caring about me.
Do you miss her love?
(I miss your love.)
All right.
We'll start with Min Hyun.
If Rin had her heart broken,
I think it's a worry.
I was once bullied at school when I was little.
Because of how I look.
- Because of your looks? - Yes. In elementary school,
I was bullied harshly.
However, just as Yeong Ja said,
no one else but myself can improve my self esteem.
Even though I'm not better looking,
I'm better than them at dancing now.
It's okay as long as I perform well.
Thinking this way will help you.
I can't believe that Daniel was bullied because he was ugly.
(Be more confident!)
- Seriously. - Don't worry.
I think they should get along well with each other...
as if they're close sisters.
I hope they'll be on good terms.
They really are sisters.
- Your wish already came true. - Yes.
If you think it's a worry from Rin's perspective, press the button.
(What does the audience think?)
- 5, 4, 3, 2, 1. - 5, 4, 3, 2, 1.
- Stop. - Time's up.
Say a word to your sister for the last time.
I know that I'm not that pretty,
but I'm better than you, at least.
(She's dumbfounded.)
The society we live in today is appearance-driven.
Your appearance is a tool to express yourself.
I want you to spruce up yourself without being arrogant.
(When will she grow up?)
We'd like to ask Ji a favor before checking the result.
Rin has to improve her self esteem by herself,
but please help her until she regains her confidence.
She's making an effort now. When she's stood up on her feet...
Please show us the result.
(The result)
It doesn't count even if you press the button now.
("Drooped Woman")
Will she be able to get more than 170 votes?
How many votes?
- Oh, my. - She got 123 votes.
(She got 123 votes.)
This week's winner is "Wash Your Hands".
("Wash Your Hands" is the winner.)
We'll give you prize money. Congratulations.
I have sad news to tell you today.
Tae Joon, the youngest among the hosts,
has many dramas to play in.
- This is his last time on Hello. - That's so sad.
Please say goodbye to the viewers.
For the past year,
I felt like I came to school.
Coming on the show every week...
and listening to other people's concerns...
has been an extraordinary experience to me.
Reflecting on the extraordinary experience,
- I'll try to be a better actor. - Thank you.
(I'll try to become a great actor.)
We prepared flowers for him.
(We prepared flowers for him.)
Good job, Tae Joon.
- You did a good job. - Great job.
Good job, Tae Joon.
(We'll always be rooting for you.)
(He joined the show with passion.)
I'll try my best as the youngest host.
(Tae Joon shared the feelings and communicated with the guests.)
(Thank you for loving me the whole time.)
Until the day we are all worry-free.
Hello will continue to counsel you.
- Thank you. - Thank you.
("Just U" by Jeong Se Woon)